Aziz Gul’s husband sold their 10-year-old child for marriage without knowing it his Wife, take down payment so he Can feed his Family with five children. otherwise, he Tell she, They will all starve to death. he Had to sacrifice one to save the rest.
many AfghanistanAs their country plunges into a vortex of poverty, more and more people in extreme poverty are making such desperate decisions.
AfghanistanWhen the Taliban seized power in mid-August amid the disorderly withdrawal of US and NATO troops, the aid-dependent economy was already shaky.The international community froze AfghanistanBecause the Taliban government was known for its brutality during its rule 20 years ago, it was unwilling to cooperate with the Taliban government and stopped providing funds.
For a country plagued by war, drought and the coronavirus pandemic, the consequences are devastating. Government employees have not received their wages for several months. Malnutrition plagues the most vulnerable people, and aid organizations say that more than half of the population faces severe food shortages.
“The situation in this country is getting worse day by day, especially children are suffering,” said Azonza Charles, Country Director of World Vision Aid Afghanistan, It runs a health clinic for displaced persons near the western city of Herat. “Today, I was heartbroken to see these families willing to sell their children to support other family members.”
Arranging marriages for very young girls is common in the region.The bridegroom’s payment is finalized, and the children usually follow she Parents until she At least around 15 years old. However, since many people cannot afford even basic food, some people say that they will allow the bridegroom to take away very young girls and even try to sell their sons.
Gul rebelled abnormally in this patriarchal society. She was married at the age of 15, and she said that if her daughter Qandi Gul was taken away, she would commit suicide.
When her husband told her that he sold Candi, “My heart stopped beating. I wish I could die at that time, but maybe God doesn’t want me to die,” said Gul, who was next to Candi from her. Staring shyly under her sky blue turban. “Every time I think about that night… I am dead and resurrected.”
Her husband told her that he sold one to save the others, otherwise they would all die.
“Death is much better than what you did,” she said she told him.
Gour summoned her brothers and the village chief and, with their help, “divorced” Candi, on the condition that she repay the 100,000 Afghanis (approximately US$1,000) received by her husband. This is money she doesn’t have.
Her husband ran away, probably because he was worried that Gul would report him to the authorities. The Taliban government recently banned forced marriages.
Gul said she was not sure how long she could withstand the family of the 21-year-old groom-to-be.
“I’m so desperate. If I can’t provide money to pay for these people, and can’t let my daughter by my side, I said I will commit suicide,” she said. “But then I thought of the other children. What will happen to them? Who will feed them?” Her eldest was 12 years old, and the youngest-her sixth-was only two months old.
In another part of the camp, Hamid Abdullah, the father of four, also sold his young daughter to an arranged marriage and was in dire need of money to treat his chronically ill wife who was pregnant with his fifth child.
He said he could not repay the money borrowed for his wife’s treatment. Therefore, three years ago, he received a down payment from his 7-year-old daughter, Hoshran, in an arranged marriage, who is now 18.
The family who bought Hoshran are waiting for her to grow up before they settle the full payment and take her away. But Abdullah now needs money, so he is trying to arrange a wedding for his second daughter, 6-year-old Nasiya, at a cost of about 20,000-30,000 Afghanis (200-300 US dollars).
“We have no food to eat,” he said, and he couldn’t afford his wife’s doctor.
His wife Bibi Jan said they had no choice but it was a difficult decision. “When we made a decision, it was as if someone took away my body parts.”
In neighboring Badghis province, another displaced family is considering selling their 8-year-old son Salahuddin.
His mother Guldasta said that after a few days without food, she told her husband to take Salahuddin to the bazaar to sell him and bring food for others.
“I don’t want to sell my son, but I have to sell it,” the 35-year-old said. “No mother can treat her child like this, but when you have no choice, you have to make a decision against your will.”
Salahuddin blinked and watched quietly, her lips trembling slightly.
His father Shakir was blind in one eye and had kidney problems. He said the children had been hungry for a few days and cried. Two times he decided to take Salahuddin to the bazaar, and both times he hesitated. “But now I think I have no choice.”
It is believed that the purchase of boys is less common than that of girls, and when this happens, it appears to be the purchase of babies in families without sons. Desperate Guldasta thought, maybe such a family might want an 8-year-old child.
According to the United Nations, as more and more people face hunger, approximately 3.2 million children under the age of 5 face severe malnutrition, and the despair of millions is evident
“I am happy to see that the promise has been made,” she Say. But promises “should not be just promises, they must be seen as reality.”
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